12min 18sec
Columbia University
Written & Directed by Yitz Brilliant
Produced by Joshua Greenberg
Co-Produced by Geoffrey Booth
Cinematography by Nils Kenaston
The Kiddush Man is a Columbia University thesis film, and was honored with the National Board of Review Award by the National Board of Review of Motion Pictures.
The Kiddush Man is a touching coming-of-age short film set in Jerusalem, Israel. Its surprisingly simple story focuses on the experiences of Yoni – a young Jewish boy – who tries to sneak into the ‘Kiddush’ buffet at Shabbat before anyone else. His mischievous behavior usually gets him in trouble with Mr. Katz — an older religious man — until one day his fear is replaced with compassion.
The film brilliantly demonstrates the importance of the musical score as it features a tender musical accompaniment composed by Greg Pliska that makes the viewer relate to the story on a subconscious level despite the lack of dialogue.
Grade Level
5th Grade and up
Themes & Values
Intergenerational relationships, Compassion, Empathy, Synagogue life, Respecting the elderly.
Discussion Questions
- How does the relationship between the boy and the old man develop?
- What are some of the lessons learned from their relationship?
- Were you ever in a similar situation?
- The film does not contain any dialogue. How did the music relate to the story?
Additional Resources
Two quotes from Jewish sources support themes that are apparent in the film:
One of the 613 Mitzvot is to show respect to the elderly and accommodate them physically. In Leviticus 19:32:
Thou shalt rise up before the hoary head, and honour the face of the old man.
.מִפְּנֵי שֵׂיבָה תָּקוּם, וְהָדַרְתָּ פְּנֵי זָקֵן
Mipnei seivah takum, v’hadartah p’nei zaken.In Pirkei Avot 2:4, Rabbi Hillel’s words encourage empathy for people’s behavior since we don’t always know their situation:
Do not judge your fellow human being until you have reached his place.
.אַל תָּדִין (תָּדוּן) אֶת חֲבֵרְךָ עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִמְקוֹמוֹ
Al tadun et chaverchah ad shetagiyah limkomo.